There are a number of solar industry associations. They do lobby for producers, when the two interests align. I am not aware of a solar homeowners association. Here are 2 of the industry associations.
California Solar Energy Industries Association
http://www.calseia.org/Northern California Solar Energy Association
http://www.norcalsolar.org/You should probably contact PG&E, SCE, and SDG&E directly to inquire about what meters they approve, and what their meter charges are. The big 3 do not always agree on things. Muni’s can also go their own way, but they will usually be in line with one of the big 3.
I think that the “bi-direction meter charge” you are referring to, may actually be a TOU meter charge. In the PG&E service area, the standard non-TOU meter has been a bi-directional meter for many years. Many solar systems have been installed on those meters with no additional charges.
Meter charges have been associated with TOU rates (no solar)since the beginning of TOU rates about 15 years ago, or so. (Despite the availability of TOU rates, only a very small percentage of residential customers have switched over to them.) There is a one time upfront charge for the meter (Less than $300, the last I knew).
In addition, there are DAILY meter charge rates. I assume that they are for the data handling costs and data links. (Hundreds of meter readings to be stored and calc’ed each month vs one). The actual charge varies with the particular rate schedule you are on, ranging from about 5-40 cents a day. Supplying your own meter would not avoid these charges.
I am not sure if a residential customer can supply their own meter. The customer furnished meter situations I was involved with, were on an industrial scale, not residential. In those cases the customer was buying the meter and associated equipment and supplying it to the utility, to avoid the utility overhead costs. (The utility became the owner of the metering equipment, even though it was customer supplied.)
After SB1, the customers (with solar) would have to switch their standard bi-directional meters for a bi-directional TOU meter, incurring both the one time charge for the meter and the daily meter charges.
My understanding of the current situation (post June 7), is that it is customer optional as to whether they go net metering with their standard meter, or go TOU per SB1 and incur the meter charges. My hope is that it stays that way in the future.