Jason, the reason there is no real temperature difference in the drainback tank is because of the amount of water in the tank that gets sent up to the panels to be heated. If you notice, when the pump turns on, most of the water in the drainback tank is sent up to the panels leaving very little water in the drainback tank. This indicates that the amount of water to be heated pretty much equals the amount of water that the panels can hold. Since you are heating a small amount of water it heats up quickly. The other reason the temperature stays steady is the heatexchanger area. It is this area that determines the amount of heat that can be transferred. The heat exchanger, I assume, is 1/2" tubing surrounded by 3/4 to 1" tubing. So if you know the length of the 1/2 tubing you can calculate the surface area and thus the heat exchange area. Also since the hot water from the panels is in the drainback tank, the tank itself, if not insulated, can lose heat to the surroundings.
The newer technology that I speak of are heat exchanger tanks in which the heat exchanger coil is inside the tank. These tanks are available in 45, 80 and 120 gallons. The most common of these today are "Super Stor" tanks. If you check their specs, you will see the size of the coils and will see that the surface area is much greater than your drainback coil. And since the coil is inside the tank and exposed to and surrounded by the water you are trying to heat, the efficiency is much better. As far as a more powerful pump goes, actually the slower the water moves the better. This give the heating fluid more time to absorb and transfer it's heat.
Tom, I'm wondering where you get your information. Quite frankly, much that you have said here has been misleading and simply incorrect. For example, closed-loop systems with heat exchanger coils inside have in fact been around since the '70's. The drainback system was invented in order to overcome the difficulties with these systems and is the newer technology.
Concerning using a larger pump to move more water to take off more heat, you said that the water should move more slowly to take off more heat. This is simply incorrect, if, as I said, the output from the heat exchanger is already very hot. This means the water is taking off all the heat it can carry. More water will take off more heat because it will be cooler as it passes through, creating a steeper gradient. The steeper the gradient, the more efficient the heat transfer. Simple physics.
And concerning the amount of fluid in the drainback tank, it only takes about 2 gallons to fill all the piping and the collector, which leaves 8 gallons in the tank, as it was designed for. The heat exchanger coil is in the lower two thrds of the tank and is always immersed in the drainback fluid.
And concerning the need to have the panel loop vented in some way to allow drainback, this is also incorrect. The tank is designed so that the inlet from the panel enters into the airspace in the tank. Once the pump is shut off, air travels back up the outlet pipe as the weight of the water causes it to drain back into the drainback tank through the inlet pipe. If you had a vent in the system, as soon as you turned on the pump all your water would exit through it.
It seems obvious to me that you don't really understand how these systems are installed or operate. I'm going to end this conversation at this point in order to prevent the further spreading of misinformation, in case there are people reading this who want facts, not uninformed opinions.